You may have heard the phrase “dying to oneself”.  And you may have a pretty good grasp on what it means. I believe this concept is one of the most vital disciplines in a Christian’s life and perhaps one that is least exercised.

In simple terms, dying to self is surrendering to the will of God. It is allowing God to control and guide our decisions. However, I believe it goes deeper than this to cover every aspect of our being. Our thoughts, feelings, actions and attitudes should all be under the reign of the Holy Spirit. In effect, all the things that “self” is comprised of in our being should yield to the lordship of Christ.

The act of dying to self is as simple as asking the Holy Spirit to invade one’s life. I like to think of my heart as having a throne. The throne represents the seat, or ruling place, of all that I am. In the natural man, self occupies the throne. By requesting the Holy Spirit to sit upon the heart’s throne, the act of dying to self is commenced and we become Spirit-filled. However, it is paramount to realize that the Holy Spirit will not take a seat on the throne unless He is given permission. 

Once the Holy Spirit is on the throne, He is able to influence our thoughts. When the Holy Spirit is reigning in our lives, the still small voice and gentle whisper of God becomes clearer. First, we must recognize God’s voice and then, we can be obedient to His voice. Distinguishing God’s voice from among all the chatter of the world takes practice. However, it is much easier to obey when we know it is God talking.

Dying to self is to become more Christ-like. By allowing the Holy Spirit to reign in our hearts, He is able to transform and conform us to be more like Christ. The way we think, act, talk and feel will reflect more of what God wants us to be. Being changed on the inside is truly an act of the Holy Spirit. Our willingness to submit to the process is vital in making this happen.

Perhaps the least understood aspect of dying to self is that it is to be a daily occurrence. It is not a one-time act. Try as we might, self will crawl back upon the throne of the heart. We have to die to self each and every day. This is the essence of Luke 9:23 (NTL), which says, “ Then he said to the crowd, ‘If any of you wants to be my follower, you must put aside your selfish ambition, shoulder your cross daily, and follow me.’” While dying to self becomes easier with continued practice, I’m not sure we will ever escape the daily execution.

Dying to self is also an act of love. Jesus’ words in John 15:13 (NTL) read, “And here is how to measure it -- the greatest love is shown when people lay down their lives for their friends.” This verse can be understood as laying down one’s physical life for the benefit of others.  However, I offer that it can also mean dying to self in order to show our love to God Almighty. There is no greater demonstration of our love of Jesus, than to die to self and welcome His Lordship.

Today, let us practice the “daily death”. Give the Holy Spirit permission to reign in our hearts. Listen to and obey the voice of God. Allow the Spirit to transform us. In doing so, we will demonstrate our love for God.

“And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice -- the kind he will accept. When you think of what he has done for you, is this too much to ask?  Don't copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think.  Then you will know what God wants you to do, and you will know how good and pleasing and perfect his will really is.”

Ro. 12:1-2 (NLT)

Do you think the words a Christ follower uses matters? Is it okay to curse or cuss? Are we bound to follow the law or is there freedom to do as we please? What motivates our speech?

The Bible does admonish us not to use foul or abusive language (Eph. 4:29). While it can be debated what specific words constitute “foul” or “abusive,” I think we all generally have a good idea what words in the vocabulary would qualify. Moreover, there is an effect tied to speaking specific words. I’d like to point out a well-known story from the Bible.

On the night Jesus was arrested, Peter denied knowing Him three times. The third time is recorded in Mt. 26:74 (NLT). It states, 'Peter swore, “A curse on me if I’m lying—I don’t know the man!” And immediately the rooster crowed.'  Other translations declare that “Peter cursed.”

The moment when Peter is trying to distance himself from Jesus, when he denies knowing Jesus, the Savior of the world, he curses. In this moment, Peter speaks and acts like the world, like those around him and not resembling a friend of Jesus.

The Bible isn’t just a book of do's and don’ts to be dutifully followed. Obeying God’s law is meant to draw us closer to Him and to make us a people set apart from the world. While we certainly have no hope in following all of the God’s all the time and there is grace for the occasions when we fall short, we can still strive to be obedient. Obedience will foster a closer relationship to Jesus. This should be what motivates us.

This week as we reflect upon why we should obey God’s Word, let’s remember that while we may have freedom to do anything, not everything is good or beneficial. Not obeying puts distance between us and Jesus. Following the law leads to good things, namely a closer relationship with God Himself. 

“You say, “I am allowed to do anything”—but not everything is good for you.  You say, “I am allowed to do anything”—but not everything is beneficial.” 1 Cor. 10:23 (NLT)

There are many worldly ways to describe comfort as feelings of ease, escape, and relaxation. As feelings go, I find myself struggling with being governed by my feelings versus God's truth more often that I care to admit. Once upon a time, I continuously sought feelings of comfort through worldly ways like abusing alcohol or running away to escape my uncomfortable feelings of anxiety, guilt and shame. Those counterfeits for a temporary comfort come at a very uncomfortable cost. As I progress in my recovery of seeking comfort in counterfeit ways, this truth from Scripture has to remain a forefront of my mind: 

"You are my servant - I have chosen you; I haven't rejected you. Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be afraid, for I am your God. I will strengthen you; I will help you; I will hold on to you with my righteous right hand." - The Lord (Isaiah 41:10) 

I am learning that comfort comes through taking Jesus' yoke upon me to receive the true rest that Jesus offers, a rest that lasts, does not let us down, and a rest that the worldly ways of comfort cannot give us (Matthew 11:28). This rest comes through taking captive our thoughts to rest in God's truth. He is with me, His truth can comfort me amidst the pain, anxiety and anything uncomfortable. As my thoughts rest in His truth, my feelings sometimes adjust, sometimes they don't for a while. However, feelings should push me into Jesus, not away. His truth about who we are and His righteous right hand holding us can help us as we let those uncomfortable feelings pass, because feelings come and go. Jesus' truth, it stays the same, always. 

I am also comforted in the midst of painful feelings by the truth that Jesus sympathizes with our weaknesses and is compassionate (Hebrews 4:14-16). We can go to Jesus with our hurting, He knows what we are going through, and is right beside us. My encouragement today is for us to go to Jesus, our Firm Foundation, with our discomfort, let His truth remind us of His presence. One day, my friends, we will no longer feel discomfort and pain, but will rejoice for eternity in Heaven, where there is no more death, pain, and sadness. Until then, as we travel together in this broken world, we can help each other learn to be led by God's truth, not just our feelings. I need that help. The beautiful, redemptive part of experiencing discomfort and being comforted by God through our pain is that we can carry that forward to others. My prayer for us today is this: 

"Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. For as we share abundantly in Christ's sufferings, so through Christ we share abundantly in comfort too." (2 Cor. 1:3-5). 

Back earlier in my Christian walk, I was introduced to a practice called “quiet time.” Every morning, I was encouraged to take around 30 minutes and journal about things I was grateful for, what Scripture is God speaking to me today, and prayers for help and for others. There are times that I start off strong and with discipline, and then I start “getting busy”, you know when you start saying “I’ll do this later today” and it doesn’t happen. As Pastor Doug speaks on prayer, I have felt conviction that I have let this “quiet time” slip more than I should and that my abiding in Christ means that I stay in connection to Him, and prayer is an essential part of that connection. 

As often is the case, hymns share a unique and insightful look at faith expressed from decades or centuries past while still being relevant today. There is this hymn, published first in 1859, called “Sweet Hour of Prayer.” The words to this hymn were written by an English lay preacher, William Walford, who also happened to be blind. He saw the world differently from those around him that could see. Walford was known for having a rich inner prayer life and for him, going to Jesus in prayer was a sweet delight. In this hymn, Walford describes this most beautiful scene of personal and prayerful devotion in all sorts of seasons that come in life by saying: 

“Sweet hour of prayer! Sweet hour of prayer! That calls us from a world of care. And bids me at my Father’s throne, make all my wants and wishes known. In seasons of distress and grief, my soul has often found relief. And oft escape the tempters snare, by thy return sweet hour of prayer!” 

Maybe life feels like a whirlwind sometimes and stilling ourselves before the Lord gets away from us. I needed the reminder this hymn song gives - to return to that sweet hour of prayer. To give space and moments that are special between Jesus and I. If it's been a while for you - know that Jesus is still right there, right now, ready to speak to your heart through His word, comfort you with peace that passes understanding, and hear you when you call. Like Walford’s hymn says, it is such a sweet moment. 

Jesus, help me to recenter on You as my all in all and return to that special place where you and I meet to talk each day. Thank you for reminding me of your presence, no matter where I am, and for hearing me when I call. In Your name I pray, Amen.

Do you remember the good ol’ days when you had your heart set on a particular item, but did not have the funds to own it?  What did you do? More than likely, you would work to save money until you could afford to buy that object. It was truly a Snickers moment, because it was going to take a minute.

The people of Israel had been promised a Messiah through the prophets. Before Jesus was born, it had been a few hundred years since God had spoken through any prophet to His people. That is a long time wait and to wait in deafening silence. One could understand if the eagerness and anticipation began to wane a skoosh. 

When Mary and Joseph had traveled to Bethlehem before Jesus was born, they met a man named Simeon at the temple.  Simeon was described as a righteous and devout man. He was also eagerly anticipating the Messiah.

I find this quite astonishing. In our day and age of living in a fast-paced culture, waiting on anything is a lost art. We have no patience for slowness of any kind. Everything must be expedited and delivered with speed. Yet, Simeon was still waiting for the Messiah even though it had been a few hundred years since the last time God had spoken about the topic. And Simeon was not only waiting but expecting to see God fulfill His promise. Wow!

But I also picture that Simeon was active during the waiting period. He was not just sitting around wishing things would change.  Much like we would save our pennies to purchase a new item, Simeon was committed to preparing his heart, for indeed he was righteous. Simeon may have reflected on the words of Isaiah 40:3 and then cleared the way for the Lord in the midst of his own wilderness.

As this Advent season comes to a close and we look ahead to 2025, what are you and I looking forward to with expectation? Are we eagerly and actively waiting? Have we cleared the way for the Lord? Perhaps we need embrace the wilderness, prepare our hearts and then expect God.

“At that time there was a man in Jerusalem named Simeon.  He was righteous and devout and was eagerly waiting for the Messiah to come and rescue Israel.  The Holy Spirit was upon him and had revealed to him that he would not die until he had seen the Lord’s Messiah.”

Lk. 2:25-26 (NLT)

We recently purchased a beautiful portrait. In the foreground is a little lamb covered in mud. It’s naïve, even innocent expression, betrays the lamb’s true condition. The lamb is standing in a clearing by itself, but seemingly has no idea where to go or of the danger that could be lurking in the shadows. In the distance behind the lamb, is the figure of Jesus running toward the lost animal.

I love the message of this powerful image. It reminds me that I was once spiritually lost and vulnerable - I was the lamb, but I have since been found. Jesus chased after me and would not relent until I stopped my wandering. Now I’m forgiven and have life everlasting! I'm so thankful for His unwavering pursuit of me. 

Yet, this picture also conveys to me that Jesus is still doggedly following my loved ones who have strayed. They may be unaware of the peril they are in or the dark state of their minds. The world has deceived them. Even so, Jesus is hard on their trail attempting to gain the attention of their hearts. Indeed, help is on the way, and they could be rescued, if they were only aware of the tenuous position of their souls.

Sometimes I can get discouraged by the lack of success in loved ones being liberated from the wilderness. Perhaps you have similar feelings regarding those you care about. Despite any visible progress, we must still commit to prayer. We know Jesus is the Good Shepherd and He is tirelessly tracking down our wayward loved ones.

Today, let’s not only consider our loved ones, but those in our community who have gone astray like lambs. Then let’s double our efforts and persevere in prayer, understanding there is a spiritual battle waging around us. Finally, let’s call on the Good Shepherd, our Friend Jesus, to relentlessly pursue those He has laid on our minds. In this way, we will see the Kingdom grow in 2025 and beyond. Oh, let there be joy in the Kingdom!

“If a man has a hundred sheep and one of them gets lost, what will he do?  Won’t he leave the ninety-nine others in the wilderness and go to search for the one that is lost until he finds it?  And when he has found it, he will joyfully carry it home on his shoulders.”

Lk. 15:4-5 (NLT)

Matthew 11:28-30 - "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light." 

The sabbath - a day of rest. A day of rest each week - what a blessing from the Lord, but the world (and in the world of my own brain) rest seems strange at times. Being able to rest and be still, for me, is so hard!  Rest is not an easy or encouraged in our task centric  society today.  Now back in Old testament times and in Jewish culture there were such rigorous rules that defined what "rest" was and wasn't in order to observe God's command to remember the Sabbath and keep it holy.  If you walked too much, you were in trouble! If you did too much yard work, you were in trouble! I guess I would have been in trouble each week by that standard. Thankfully, Jesus cleared up and clarified the heart about Sabbath and rest when he said in Mark 2:27 - that the Sabbath was made for man (us), not man for the Sabbath. It's meant to be a intentional time of recharge, renewal, and rededication to God, not some anxiety-inducing rule. 

Resting isn't easy. The world floods us with distractions, so much so that if we don't intentionally stop, rest, reset, we wouldn't stop at all until we burn out. I think rest means more than just not doing things. Jesus ushered in a new kind of rest, a deeper rest when he says to "come to me for rest" in Matthew 11:28. Though physical rest is an important part of honoring this Sabbath rest, Jesus said, if I am weary, to come to Him for rest. It's not just about stopping doing things. It's deeper. I can rest from trying to earn my approval and acceptance through performance, rest from my own self loathing by giving Him my burdens, rest from torment of situations beyond my control, because I trust the One who is in control. Honoring a Sabbath day each week to rest is not just a "do nothing day" (as if that is a thing). It has to mean more than just physical rest. Resting my soul spiritually by intentionally setting our mind on things above, caring for our physical need of rest of course, but our soul rest -  devoting ourselves to a sacred time of remembering Jesus', honoring Jesus in gratefulness for who He is. Yes, that should be every day AND how special, though, to honor God's command for us to have a Sabbath rest, a sacred time and day to intentionally set aside our normal day to day workings, consecrate our hearts, mind, soul, and strength to God, resting in His goodness. It refuels us for our work ahead. 

With the recent disasters involving violent water, I doubt many of us would be willing to get too close to a rushing river that has flooded over its banks. I believe we all have a new healthy respect for the power of water. If we had to cross the river, we would certainly look for a nice, sturdy bridge.

When Joshua was leading Israel into the Promise Land, they faced an obstacle. That obstacle was the Jordan River at flood stage. There was no bridge. The people of Israel were on foot traveling with all their possessions. And they needed to cross that roaring river to get to their destination. 

Yet, God had a plan. The Levitical priests accompanying Joshua were to carry the Ark of the Covenant into the Jordan River. That was the plan.

Imagine being one of the priests. Would you be swept away by the fierce current, drown and/or lose the Ark? Perhaps you would stumble and fall. The water was not only flowing strong, but surely brown and murky. You wouldn’t be able to see the bottom or what you might be stepping on. That was no small matter. Stumbling and accidently touching the Ark would result in death to the one who touched the Ark. Poles were used to carry the Ark for this reason. There undoubtably was fear and trepidation among the priests about the task at hand.

As we read in Joshua Chapter 3, it says as soon as the feet of priests touched the water, the water began backing up a great distance away. I think it is worth noting that one of the verses states “feet of the priests.” We don’t know how many priests would carry the Ark at one time, but at least four seems logical due to the poles required to transport the object with one priest being on each of both poles. I interpret this phrase as all the priests were in the water before the river started to back up. Each of them had to step out in faith before God worked His miracle.

This has application for us in our journey. We need to stay close to God by “holding on to the poles.” This is our personal, intimate relationship with Him. Next, when He signals us to move out, we need to go and do what He says. It may not seem logical or may seem frightening, but we need to courageously obey. Finally, we are all on this journey together. God may not act until each of us are committed and in the water. Let’s pray for one another to have the courage to join God on this great adventure.

“Then Joshua told the people, ‘Purify yourselves, for tomorrow the Lord will do great wonders among you.’”

Jos. 3:5 (NLT)

When it comes to obedience to God’s Word, how do think you and I do on a daily basis? Yeah, that’s a loaded question. Since the Bible is full of God’s commands, it is unlikely any of us comply with all of them every day.  What if we bring it down to just a single one? Further still, what if we were told to follow this singular mandate by two angels? How do you think we would fare then?

Well, this was the situation that Lot, his wife and two daughters found themselves in. The angels had come to destroy Sodom and Gomorrah.  However, through the prayers of Abraham, the life of Lot would be spared. Yet, Lot and his family needed to heed the warning of the angels and follow their specific instructions. The angels told them, “Run for your lives! And don’t look back or stop anywhere in the valley!” (Ge. 19:17 NLT). Pretty simple, right?

Now imagine you were a member of Lot’s family during this event. They probably understood the men were sent from God by the display of power the night before, but did they truly know they were angels? I’m sure they had lots of other questions swirling around in their heads. Could the two men be trusted? Do we really need to leave immediately with just the clothes on our backs? And we can’t stop or look back? Those are just a few. Would you comply with the directive?      

Then it happened. Lot’s wife looked back. And she was no more. A pillar of salt stood where she had last breathed. Whatever doubts Lot and his daughters had about the purpose of their journey were surely replaced by a reverent fear. Their desire to obey was at the forefront of their minds.

The judgement for Lot’s wife’s action seems harsh- “she looked back”. What harm could there be in this? I think it was not so much about the physical looking with her eyes as it was about the looking with her heart. The implication is that she longed for the old life and ways. God was offering her an escape, a rescue to a new life. Her liberation required strict obedience and allegiance to Him. She didn’t get a second chance.

Following Jesus requires obedience and, in our obedience, we demonstrate our love to Him. I’m so thankful for His grace and mercy, which we all have received in second chances. But when we are feeling tired or discouraged in our journey, let’s remember Lot’s wife and then continue onward with our eyes focused forward on Jesus with a determined devotion and obedient heart. And while we are thinking about it, let’s lift each other up in prayer by asking God to keep us strong and our eyes forward on Jesus.

“Remember what happened to Lot’s wife!”

Lk. 17:32 (NLT)

Have you heard of the term “imprinting” and if so, do you know what it means? The most well-known form of imprinting is called filial imprinting. This is where a young animal will establish a social relationship with an object because of exposure to that object, which is typically a parent. Often this behavior is seen in birds such as ducks and geese. I’m sure we have all seen a mother duck and a gaggle of ducklings waddling near a pond. You know- waddle, waddle, quack, quack!  This is filial imprinting in action.

There is a sensitive period after hatching in which the ducklings imprint on their mother. They then proceed to follow her around for the next couple of months. Even though they know how to find their own food and swim, they will not leave her side until they can fly. Once they can fly, they will no longer constantly follow their mother and will soon venture out on their own.

However, if a duckling does not get exposed to its mother for some reason, it will imprint on something else. For example, ducklings have been known to imprint on zookeeper’s boots. This obviously is not a healthy situation for the young birds. 

I think this imagery can apply to our relationship with Jesus. When we expose our lives to Jesus, we can begin a relationship with Him. The more we see of Him, the more we know what He looks like. Then we can follow Him around with confidence and allow Him to teach us His ways. All the while, we remain under His protection and care.

Yet, if we don’t spend time meditating on God’s word and praying with Him, we can be misled by what the world tells us.  There are many things that want to grab our attention and direct our path away from God. They may look and sound very much like the truth, but sadly are not. We need the wisdom of God to be able to discern the difference.

So today, let’s resolve to be people who are true followers of Jesus. Ones who know His voice, seek His truth and obey His commands. And its okay to waddle as long as you know Who you are following!

“My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me.”

Jn. 10:27 (NLT)

Try to picture having dinner with your favorite person at a local eatery. The place is hopping and music is blaring.  Attempting to converse can be challenging, especially when both of you are getting the senior discount and partially deaf!  You might get a bit frustrated, or you may well just roll with it.

Sitting in silence enjoying each other’s company could be pleasant enough. Yet, if you have things to talk about, you may have to take additional steps. Some things you might do to have an effective chat are to make eye contact. Ensure you have the other’s full attention before communicating. Perhaps you need to speak a little louder over all the background noise. If all else fails, you’ll choose a different venue.

Now let’s think about our prayer time with God. What does that look like? Are we distracted by what is going on around us? Does God have our full attention? Are we comfortable with just sitting and waiting for Him to speak? Are we dominating the conservation? Do we need to turn and seek His face?

Now just what does it mean to “seek His face” anyway? Certainly, this is more figurative, than literal. I think the first aspect is tuning out all the worldly distractions. Then, it’s about taking up a specific posture of the heart. This is a posture or attitude that is humble and grateful while we simultaneously acknowledge the greatness of our God and recognize the depth of our need.

I’m positive we can all identify areas where we can do better when trying to connect with our Creator. It is important to understand that God cherishes the moments when we stop to meet with Him no matter what it looks like. We need to develop a similar attitude towards such occasions as we grow our relationship with Him.

Today, let’s resolve to slow down, tune out the noise and seek the face of God, even if just for a few ticks of the clock throughout our day.

Hear my voice when I call, Lord; be merciful to me and answer me.

My heart says of you, “Seek his face!”

    Your face, Lord, I will seek.”

Ps. 27:7-8 (NIV)

Have you ever heard of Greensburg, Kansas? Maybe, maybe no. By a show of hands, do you know what they are “famous” for? Judging from the wee number of folks who can respond affirmatively, that means most of us haven’t a clue. Well, let’s go deep! (That’s so dreadful.)

Greensburg is purportedly home to the world’s largest hand-dug well. It is called the Big Well, and it measures 32 feet wide and 109 feet deep. Construction began in 1887 and took almost two years to complete. Once finished, the well provided water for the steam locomotives of the Kingman, Pratt, & Western rail line, a subsidiary of the Santa Fe. Further, it also served as a supply of water for the residents of the town.

The Big Well was a hub of connection. It was a place where trains stopped to refill with water. Without water, the steam engines could not operate or continue to their next rendezvous point. The Big Well was also a source of life for the people. Greensburg is classified as a humid subtropical climate, meaning that is hot and dry. The ones living there needed water to survive, especially in the arid environment.

You and I may have never heard of Greensburg, Kansas and the Big Well before today. However, the people who have lived there throughout the years and reside there now, know how important the well has been to their community. It truly has been a source of life and connection to them.

As we reflect on our church, our community and our legacy, let’s focus on being a source of life and connection, like the Big Well. Everyone might not have heard of Mooresville, Indiana and Town Center Church, but that’s okay. For those who have and have yet to hear, let’s keep our mission in front of us and vision clear. There is no better place to find connection than with fellow Christ followers. And there is only One Source of Life - that is Jesus.

“But those who drink the water I give will never be thirsty again.  It becomes

a fresh, bubbling spring within them, giving them eternal life.”

Jn. 4:14 (NLT)

Have you ever participated in a white elephant gift exchange? I’m sure many of us have at some point. But what exactly is a white elephant gift? Merriam-Webster dictionary defines a white elephant gift in a couple of ways. First, as an object no longer of value to its owner but of value to others. And secondly, as something of little or no value. So basically, a white elephant gift is something that has no value or meaning to you and costs you nothing to give away.

Do we treat our tithes to God like a white elephant gift, something that costs us little? Do we give only that which we know we do not need? Tithing is to be an act of faith, not faith in ourselves, but trust in God.

The Bible commands that “the best of the first fruits” be brought to the house of the Lord. The first fruits were the first of the harvested crops or of the firstborn of their livestock, a tenth of the produce of the land. It was to be set apart to God as holy meaning - it was to be the best. Offering the first crops of the harvest and firstborn animals exhibited faith that God would continue to provide additional produce to sustain the people throughout the year. Giving the best of the harvest expressed that the people’s utmost and finest belonged to God Almighty. (See Lev. 27:30 & Eze. 44:30 for further study.)

For us today, we should look at our paychecks as being equivalent of a harvest. Giving 1/10 would be in money. I view the first 1/10 based on the gross amount of the paycheck before all the deductions and taxes are made. This is akin to giving our best and unblemished to God. What remains is enough to sustain us until the next “harvest.”

Take some time this day to examine your giving habits. Are you giving God the best of the first fruits? Or are your offerings more like white elephant gifts? Remember that Abel's offerings were acceptable to God, while Cain’s were not (Gen 4:3-7). If need be, ask God to help you develop the discipline of tithing. As you step out in faith, God will reward your obedience. To this I can testify.

“As you harvest your crops, bring the very best of the first harvest to the house of the Lord your God.”

Ex. 23:19a (NLT)

How would you define gossip, as in the verb? I found it hard to express mainly because I didn’t have a good understanding of the exact meaning. So, I turned to several dictionaries. Here are some of the descriptions they offered.

• To reveal personal or sensational facts about others.
• To spread rumors or reports of an intimate nature.
• To talk idly, especially about the affairs of others.
• To go about tattling.
• To wag one’s tongue.
• To speak about others and reveal secrets or intimacies.

On the surface, these definitions may not seem all that harmful. What is being said, or gossiped, may actually be true and not a lie or falsehood. However, the motive behind saying such things needs to be examined. Often the intent is to tarnish the reputation of the one being spoken about, maybe not to the extent of slander, but it does not matter in God’s eyes. It is still a sin.

In 2 Cor. 12:20 (NKJV), Paul lists a variety of things he does not want to find in the church at Corinth when he comes to visit. In the translation referenced, is a word “whisperings.” The word in Greek is psithurimos and means gossip. When gossip is about other people, it is almost always done when the other person is not present. You can envision this being done in secret, or quietly with whispers. Confidential details relayed to willing ears without permission will break the bond of trust between two parties. This can be very damaging to the relationship.

Here are some ways we might gossip and might not even realize it.

• Passing on information that was shared in confidence.
• Repeating something sensational even though we don’t know if it’s true or not.
• Disclosing additional private details of a prayer concern.
• Talking about other people’s business that do not concern us.

Dear ones, gossiping is easy. Yet, we must remember that God hates such talk. This week, let’s watch what we say and avoid listening to those want to pass along gossip. Instead, let our conversation be used for building up one another.

“Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for

necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers.”

Eph. 4:29 (NKJV)

Do you remember your last year of high school and wondering what you were going to do the rest of your life? I was like every other teenager in that regard. However, I knew that I liked math. How many of you are fond of math? Ooh, I might have just lost my readership with that question. Oh wait, I see that hand! Thanks, Pastor Doug, for hanging in there with me.

While being able to solve math problems is one thing, it is another to earn a living by using algebra and trigonometry. After graduating from high school, I thought I might want to be an engineer, not really knowing what they do. I found a school willing to take my money in exchange for further training and on my merry way I went to Rose-Hulman.

One of the things I have learned about being an engineer is that I often get to solve problems in creative ways. As we know, mankind was made in the image of God. Perhaps the most fundamental way this truth is manifested is through creativity. God is the Master Creator. We humans are keen to create things. Being creative gives us enjoyment. When you can be creative at your place of employment or what you do for a living, then it doesn’t seem like “work” and certainly not drudgery.

Further, when you perform an activity you enjoy, you tend to do it with excellence. If you examine the top musicians, artists, athletes, scientists, or anyone else considered the best in their field, you will notice that they relish what they do. That is what drives them to be the best they can be.

If you find yourself in a season where you are wondering what to do with your life, examine the interests you like to pursue or activities you are good at. These God-given abilities and skills will allow you to be creative. Then find opportunities in the work place to not only earn a living but also gain enjoyment. It will be then that you will feel fulfilled, and you will be following your God-given purpose in life.

“And it is a good thing to receive wealth from God and the good health to enjoy it. To enjoy your work and accept your lot in life—this is indeed a gift from God.”

Ecc. 5:19 (NLT)

Scrawled across the large billboard were the words “For such a time as this.” Eye-catching for sure, but it soon dawned on me that it was a reference to the show playing at the Sight and Sound Theater in nearby Branson, Missouri, a show I would soon experience. The show was simply titled "Esther.”

I’m sure you are familiar with the Biblical story of Esther. While living in captivity, her parents died when she was young. She was then adopted and raised by her relative Mordecai. Through a series of events, Esther wound up being the Queen of Persia and Media, a powerful nation at that point in history.

During this time, an enemy to the Jews rose to power within the kingdom. Mordecai pleaded with Esther to approach the King noting that perhaps she was made “for such a time as this.” In doing so, Esther would be risking her life, and she could be killed if she offended the King in any manner. As the story continues, Esther found favor with the King and was able to prevent the slaughter of her people. Then the tables turned, and the enemies of the Jewish people were eradicated.

Have you ever considered your own life as to when you were born in the human timeline? Like, it could have been in the Middle Ages, or in the future or during the days of Jesus, but it wasn’t. Certainly, we get our biological DNA from our parents, but have you thought about the spiritual aspect? Our spirits are God breathed. It comes from Him. Tied to our spiritual nature are some of our personality and character traits. He could have chosen another body of flesh and bones in which to birth our spirits, yet He chose ours at this specific instance in time. Why was that? Just take a moment to ponder that.

You and I were made special with intent and care, indeed with a purpose in mind. Perhaps we will be in the spotlight like Queen Esther or have more of a faithful nurturing role like Mordecai. Maybe we are just one of the many dutiful saints who will pray for the salvation of their people. Nevertheless, you and I were made for such a time as this. So today, take heart, be encouraged, and go live the life God planned for you.

“Who knows if perhaps you were made queen for just such a time as this?”

Esther 4:14b (NLT)

In our day when someone passes, it is almost customary for some to assume the person is going to heaven. People will make comments of how they are “in a better place.” On their birthday they may wish them a “happy heavenly birthday” and so forth. Yet, the deceased may have never professed a relationship with Jesus or demonstrated any Christ-like qualities.

Have you ever wondered why people tend to believe and say such things? I think it is because people tend to genuinely believe in Heaven. They also seem to think most folks are basically good and will be allowed to get in. Only those who are really, truly evil will be excluded.

You will no doubt recall the story of Barabbas. He stood before a human judge, one who had the power to give him life or death. Being a criminal, Barabbas was set to die for his deeds. However, Pilate, his judge, was persuaded by the pleas of the people to release him. Barabbas was pardoned and “set free” by the court of public opinion. Barabbas must have thought he escaped death that day by his own good merits.

Barabbas likely went on his merry way thinking nothing more of his great escape or the man who took his place on the cross that day. Yet, it was the man who switched with him that could have truly set him free. It is not known if Barabbas ever changed his ways. If he didn’t and when death finally did catch up with him, there certainly was no court of public opinion or human judge to help him escape his eternal punishment.

The Bible is clear there is only one way to heaven and that is through Jesus. Further, it states the road is narrow and few find it. Hoping and wishing that being good enough, quite frankly, is not going to be good enough. There will be no great escape when death comes calling.

Perhaps up to this day, you have never had a relationship with Jesus. Understand this: Jesus went to the cross for Barabbas. That was His plan all along. Jesus loved Barabbas and wanted him to be truly set free. He also went to the cross for you and me. Make no mistake, we are Barabbas in the story.

Today could be the day that changes the course of your life. He loves you too and wants you to be free, to live with Him forever, both here on earth and in heaven. Jesus has been calling your name from the cross to come to Him. If you want to start a relationship with Jesus, please say this prayer now:

“Jesus, I want to begin a new life with You. I’m sorry for the things I have done in my life. Please forgive me. I ask that You come into my heart and begin to transform me into the person you want me to be. In Your Name, Amen.”

“But the gateway to life is very narrow and the road is difficult, and only a few ever find it.”

Mt 7:14 (NLT)

I’m sure you have seen or heard someone ask for prayers for a certain situation. The person requesting may not be particularly spiritual. They may use language like “please send good thoughts” or “good vibes”. I’ll admit that I struggle with this.

When I hear a request like this, I have several thoughts scrambling around my brain, many not good. First, like what is a “good vibe”? How about a smack upside the head? Don’t you realize you need God?

Next, you want prayer? I mean, how can someone who is profaning the name of God in one breath have the audacity to seek His hand in the next? That is just not right…

My basic hangup centers on wanting the goodness of God to be exclusive to His children. Not sure where idea came from, but pretty sure it wasn’t from Jesus. Jesus welcomed such requests. He saw them as opportunities to show His love, power, mercy, and goodness.

All throughout the New Testament are stories of Jesus encountering those in need. Many sought Him out asking for help. I don’t recall one instance where anyone was denied by Jesus. The phrase “He healed them all” is prevalent. It doesn’t say some or many, but all. “All” is inclusive. There were no pre-qualifications. You just had to show up and ask.

Now we don’t know if these folks developed a deeper relationship with Jesus or not. We do know that Jesus cared about them and their situation. And He offered them a glimpse of who He was and who they could become. Jesus understood such encounters could be the beginning of a special bond. The same is true today.

With this mind, the first thing I’m going to do is seek forgiveness for being a modern-day Pharisee. My attitude and thoughts are flat-out wrong. Then, the next time I hear a request for prayer no matter how it is stated, I’m going to view it as an invitation for Jesus to show His love, power, mercy, and goodness to a world that desperately needs Him. Next, I will follow up with a prayer for that person and their concern. Perhaps you will join me. I hope you will. Let’s pray for more.

“When Jesus heard this, he told them, “Healthy people don’t need a doctor—sick people do. I have come to call not those who think they are righteous, but those who know they are sinners.”

Mk 2:17 (NLT